Sunday, February 24, 2013

Many Gifts, One Body: Women, Ordination and the Catholic Church


(I wrote this paper in partial fulfillment of the requirements for a class; it was presented to the instructor on August 5, 2010... It got a 99 :-) )


The hour is coming, in fact has come, when the vocation of women is being acknowledged in its fullness, the hour in which women acquire in the world an influence, an effect and a power never hitherto achieved. That is why, at this moment when the human race is undergoing so deep a transformation, women imbued with the spirit of the Gospel can do so much to aid humanity in not falling.
--The Second Vatican Council’s Message to Women, December 8, 1965



            Women are no strangers to Christianity. With the exception of John the Beloved Disciple, only women remained with Jesus as He hung on the cross [Mt 27:55-56] and in all four Gospels, women were the first to receive the news of Jesus’ resurrection. [Mt 28:1-10; Mk 16:18; Lk 24:1-12; Jn 20:1-18 NAB] St. Paul mentions a minister named Phoebe [Rom 16:1] in addition to many other women active in the early Church. The Blessed Virgin Mary is the perfect example of the faithful follower of Christ. Throughout the centuries, holy women have served the Church as wives and mothers, housekeepers and religious teachers and Doctors of the Church. Yet, there is one thing a Catholic woman has never been: a validly ordained priest. A growing faction within the Catholic Church is calling for the Church to ordain women as a matter of justice and equality. They fail to see that the reservation of ordination to men is a gift to the Church that allows men and women to apply their equal yet different gifts to the mission of Jesus Christ and His Church.
The 100 women who have attempted ordination in the past eight years claim to have received the sacrament validly but illicitly because validly ordained bishops ordained the women who in turn ordained them.[1] These women and their supporters want the Church to recognize the ordinations and allow them to minister to Catholics in this time when bishops are shuttering parishes for lack of priests. They appeal to anyone who will listen, saying the Vatican stance shows it is guilty of offenses ranging from outright misogyny to the violation of “international law, our human rights, the example of Jesus and integrity of conscience.”[2] Some question why, when God chose a woman to give Jesus Christ flesh and blood in her womb, women are not fit to make Him present, Body and Blood, in the Eucharist.[3] In her book Sacraments Alive, Sandra DeGidio admits that she brings to her chapter on Holy Orders “…some pain. Pain for my sisters who feel gifted for and called to a priesthood that is not open to them.”[4] The arguments are heartfelt, sincere and-on the surface-logical. Who has the right to deny a vocation based solely upon gender? It simply is not fair.
Compounding the difficulty for the Vatican is the recent Vatican document listing updated disciplinary norms for various offenses within the Church, including for women who attempt ordination (and those who attempt to ordain them) and for those guilty of sexual abuse. Calling both gravioribas delictus (grave crimes) and placing them in the same document provided fodder for those on the women’s ordination front. The Internet went wild with misleading articles claiming the Church felt the crimes were analogous. The Church’s statement, however, clearly distinguished between sexual abuse as a crime against morals and attempted ordination as a crime against the sacraments.[5] Mary Kay Kusner, who calls herself a “womanpriest” (sic), took the opportunity to plead her case in the media: “It is unjust and discriminatory that the males at the Vatican continue to deny us employment and decision making within the Roman Catholic Church.”[6] Kusner and her cohorts consistently make the issue one of sexism and fail to acknowledge the Church’s primary reason for not ordaining women: the Church does not have the authority.
While there exists evidence from the early Church of women serving in ministry, their function was ministry to other women. The Apostolic Constitutions state clearly, “A deaconess does not bless, but neither does she perform anything else done by presbyters and deacons, but she guards the doors and greatly assists the presbyters, for the sake of decorum, when they are baptizing women.”[7] So, from the late 4th century, it was already the teaching of the Church that only men could serve as priests. With the exception of Judaism, priestesses were common in religions of Jesus’ day.[8] Jesus knew this and had many holy women among His followers-including His Blessed Mother. Yet, Jesus only chose men as His closest companions and as His first priests.[9] The claim that Jesus was conforming to society accuses Jesus of sexism when He “had no qualms about shattering the cultural norms regarding interaction with women.”[10] In 1994, Pope John Paul II issued the following statement:
Wherefore, in order that all doubt may be removed regarding a matter of great importance, a matter which pertains to the Church’s divine constitution itself, in virtue of my ministry of confirming the brethren (cf. Luke 22:32), I declare that the Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women and that this judgment is to be definitively held by all the Church’s faithful.[11]

Case closed. Still, it seems harsh. Scripture, however, supports the Church’s position. The Levitical priesthood prefigured the sacramental priesthood, which the priesthood of Jesus Christ fulfills.[12] Revelation [Rev 21:9-10] and St. Paul’s letter to the Ephesians [Eph 5:21-32] both place Jesus Christ in the role of Bridegroom with the Church as Bride of Christ. A female priest would violate the scriptural image of Christ the Bridegroom, replacing it with a relationship both unnatural and lacking fecundity. This metaphor calls for an exclusively male priesthood, something the Church cannot change; and explains why the only valid subject for the sacrament of Holy Orders is a baptized male.[13] 
Attempted ordination of women is a crime against the sacraments because it affects the sacramental economy. While the sacraments act ex opere operato, they are dependent upon the validity of the minister specific to that sacrament. This is why parents can allow children to play Mass without fear of profaning the Blessed Sacrament, and it is why a person who intentionally simulates a sacrament is guilty of a crime against the sacraments. A Catholic expects that the priest celebrating the Eucharist or Reconciliation with her does so validly and licitly. She has no reason to think otherwise. Ironically, in their attempt to make the sacraments more accessible through their (invalid) ordinations, these womenpriests actually deny Catholics who approach them access to the sacraments and to sacramental grace.
“No one has a right to receive the sacrament of Holy Orders. Indeed no one claims it for himself; he is called to it by God….[He] must humbly submit his desire to the authority of the Church….”[14]  Lack of humility and submission are the hallmarks of womenpriests like Mrs. Kusner, “[The Vatican’s July 2010 statement] causes us to lessen all the more the authority of the Church.”[15] Her statement reveals her heart: if she cannot humbly accept the authority of the Church, whose authority does she accept? Does she faithfully transmit the teaching of the Church she claims she serves? If there is no humility, no obedience, can there be love?
Let every person be subordinate to the higher authorities, for there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been established by God. Therefore, whoever resists authority opposes what God has appointed, and those who oppose it will bring judgment upon themselves. [Rom 13:1-2]

The womenpriests’ disobedience of the Magisterium is no less than disobedience of God. If one believes Jesus Christ instituted the Catholic Church and that he promised that nothing would prevail against Her, then one must believe that the Church has the ability and authority to hand on the faith exactly as God intends. “…The Catholic Church is one body, having many members. The soul that quickens this body is the Holy Spirit; and therefore in the Creed after confessing our belief in the Holy Spirit, we are bid to believe in the Holy Catholic Church.”[16]  
            Extending his metaphor of the Church as the Body of Christ, St. Paul beautifully teaches that the diversity of the parts of the body contributes to the whole, rather than threatening the unity of the body.[1 Cor 12:12-26]  To the Romans, St. Paul writes,  “...we, though many, are one body in Christ and individually parts of one another. Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us exercise them.” [Rom 12:5-6]
            The saddest, most consistent mistake of those pushing for women’s ordination is the confusion of equality and sameness. When speaking to the United Nations Economic and Social Council, Permanent Observer Archbishop Migliore reminded them “Gender equality is not sameness and difference is not inequality”[17] Equality, he told them, is complimentarity-men and women working together in their uniqueness for the development of society and humanity. The same is true for the Church. Each person- ordained, lay, religious, male or female- must offer his gifts for the good of the body. Each gift is necessary; each gift is equal…yet none are the same. Archbishop Migliore says that women “are dynamic agents of development in the family, society and in the world….Empowerment of women presupposes universal human dignity…the dignity of every human.”[18]
Since the Second Vatican Council, the role of all the laity has expanded in liturgy and in the Church- this is most evident in the more visible roles women have assumed. If there was not a male altar server available, a woman with sufficient knowledge of Latin could speak the Latin Mass parts proper to the altar server, but could not move about the altar. In the early 1970’s, women became Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion and could read scripture other than the Gospel during Mass. The 1975 General Instruction of the Roman Missal specified that women could serve “outside the sanctuary” and in 1992 came permission for female altar servers. The 2000 General Instruction of the Roman Missal allows women to fill “liturgical functions not proper to the priest or deacon” such as cantor, sacristan, commentator, usher and master of ceremonies.[19]
The United States Bishops have asked women to offer their voice in consultation and through cooperation in the exercise of authority.[20] At the parish level, women are pastoral leaders, catechists, teachers, altar servers, cantors and lectors. They serve on finance, liturgical and pastoral councils in their parishes. In the early 1990’s, women filled 85% of the non-ordained ministerial positions in Catholic parishes in the United States.[21] Their gifts extend beyond the walls of the local parish with ministries to the hospitalized and homebound. In the broader Church, women are at the helms of Catholic hospitals and universities. Women are respected theologians and hold national positions within the Church as well as within the Vatican itself.
Women comprise 20% of Vatican employees; Flamina Gionvanelli is the highest ranking among them.[22] She is 3rd in command at the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace-where nearly half the employees are women. Mrs. Giovanelli feels the complimentarity women provide is essential, “Women represent the practical side of theories…. I’ve always had the confidence to speak my mind knowing my opinion will be listened to and it will count.”[23] Mrs. Giovanelli’s 35-year career at the Vatican is a reflection of a new type of feminism proposed by Pope John Paul II. Rather than abandoning femininity in a misguided effort to be the same as men, the new feminism celebrates women’s gifts of “wisdom and moderation, courage and dedication, spirituality and fervor for the good of the Church.”[24] This is a feminism celebrating the dignity women possess as daughters of God and encouraging women, who uniquely share in God’s creation, to offer their nurturing spirits to a hurting world.
            Men cannot give birth. Women cannot be priests. The Catholic Church, who claims Jesus Christ has given her absolute authority to dictate the rather intimate details of the lives of over one billion Catholics, insists Christ has not given her the authority to ordain women as priests. The anger and disobedience of women who attempt ordination generates division. Their interviews show they want to bring attention to themselves and their agenda, not to the mission of Jesus Christ and His Church. Such amazing energy and fervor could be building up the Church rather than leading misguided Catholics away from valid sacraments. Women and men should see differences between the genders as a beautiful gift in God’s plan, not as inequality. The Church, for Her part, must continue to help people recognize and employ gifts unique to the genders- and to individuals-and continue without compromise Her work to bring about the Kingdom of God.


[1]Stephanie Wise, “Female Priests Respond to Vatican,” Iowa City Press-Citizen, July 18, 2010, http://press-citizen.com/article/20100718/news01/7180316/1079/ (accessed July 21, 2010).
[2]Ibid.
[3]Norm Leveillee, “Equality of Women in Our Catholic Church,” http://members.cox.net/normlev/norm7-3.htm (accessed July 21, 2010).
[4]Sandra DeGidio, Sacraments Alive, [Mystic, CT, Twenty-Third Publications, 1991], p. 122-3.
[5]Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Gravioribus Delectis, [Vatican City, July 2010], re-printed at http://zenit.org/article-29899?l=english, art 5-6 (accessed July 26, 2010).
[6] Wise.
[7]Clement of Rome, Apostolic Constitutions, [AD 400], http://www.catholic.com/library/women_and_the_priesthood.asp (accessed July 21, 2010).
[8]Jason Evert, “Why can’t Women Be Priests?” www.catholic.com/thisrock/2002/02015bs.asp (accessed July 20, 2010).
[9]Libreria Editrice Vaticana, Catechism of the Catholic Church, [Libreria Editrice Vaticana, Vatican City,1994],1577.
[10]Evert.
[11]John Paul II, Ordinatio Sacerdotalis , [Washington DC, USCC Publishing Services,1994], 4.
[12]CCC 1544.
[13]CCC 1577.
[14]CCC 1578, referencing Heb 5:4.
[15]Wise.
[16]Thomas Aquinas, quoted at http://www.catholic.org/national/national_story.php?id=33610 (accessed July 25, 2010).
[17]Zenit, “Holy See to UN: Gender Equality Isn’t Sameness,” http://zenit.org/article-29780?l=english (accessed July 25, 2010).  
[18]Ibid.
[19]John Lilburne, www.Romanrite.com (accessed July 22, 2010).
[20]United States Council of Catholic Bishops, “Strengthening the Bonds of Peace,” www.usccb.org/laity/bonds.shtml, 12 (accessed July 22, 2010).
[21]Philip Murnion, New Parish Ministers: Laity and Religious on Parish Staffs, [New York, National Pastoral Life Center,1992].
[23] Ibid.
[24] Pope John Paul II, “Women are Essential to the Church’s Mission,” General Audience July 13, 1994, http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/audiences/alpha/data/aud19940713en.html (accessed July 20, 2010).




WORKS CITED
Aquinas,Thomas. quoted at http://www.catholic.org/national/national_story.php?id=33610 (accessed July 25,2010).

Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Gravioribus Delectis, [Vatican City, July 2010], re-printed at http://zenit.org/article-29899?l=english (accessed July 26, 2010).

DeGidio, Sandra. Sacraments Alive, [Mystic, CT, Twenty-Third Publications, 1991].

Leveillee, Norm. “Equality of Women in Our Catholic Church,” http://members.cox.net/normlev/norm7-3.htm (accessed July 21, 2010).

Lilburne, John. www.Romanrite.com accessed July 22, 2010.

Murnion, Philip. New Parish Ministers: Laity and Religious on Parish Staffs, [New York, National Pastoral Life Center, 1992].

Pope John Paul II. “Women are Essential to the Church’s Mission,” General Audience July 13, 1994, http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/audiences/alpha/data/aud19940713en.html (accessed July 20, 2010).


United States Council of Catholic Bishops, “Strengthening the Bonds of Peace,” www.usccb.org/laity/bonds.shtml, 12 (accessed July 22, 2010).

Wise, Stephanie. “Female Priests Respond to Vatican,” Iowa City Press-Citizen, July 18, 2010, http://press-citizen.com/article/20100718/news01/7180316/1079/ (accessed July 21, 2010).

Zenit, “Holy See to UN: Gender Equality Isn’t Sameness,” http://zenit.org/article-29780?l=english (accessed July 25, 2010).




Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Remember You Are Dust...



 ( FAQ's about Ash Wednesday are below!)
While working for a parish, we had a maxim: More people come to Mass when we are giving away something.

Translation: Ash Wednesday.... Palm Sunday...

For some reason, even the nominal Catholics manage to make it to Mass on Ash Wednesday. Perhaps it is because they believe it is a holy day of obligation ( it is not)...but if it gets them there, we'll take it.

After the excesses of Mardi Gras ( and perhaps a paczki or two too many), Ash Wednesday is a subdued celebration.

Celebration?

Yes. It is the beginning of our own, personal desert experience modeled after Jesus' own 40 days fighting temptation and the Israelites' 40 years of wandering.  We set before ourselves a challenge- to enter this time of preparation and use it to become closer to the Lord, and- as I have said before- to become better people on Easter Sunday than we were on Ash Wednesday.

By now, we each should have looked into our hearts and found them in need of spring cleaning. The sacrifices and challenges we choose for ourselves are often more difficult than someone else would choose for us- and we also judge our compliance more harshly. So much so, that- like New Year's resolutions, many a Lenten promise falls by the wayside, never to be taken up again.

Timothy Cardinal Dolan  reminds us not to get discouraged, "We’ve got a Lord who’s not so much concerned with what we’ve done in the past as with what we’re doing today- so cast out into the deep!”

So if you miss a day of exercise, toss a piece of candy in your mouth absentmindedly, or forget to pray.... that's alright.

It's not a sin. Your Lenten sacrifice is between you and the Big Guy. Start again. However many times you need to- just keep going, keep trying.

...and when Easter Sunday dawns, you can walk out of the tomb a better person than you are today. 



Why ashes?

The ashes represent the old sackcloth-and-ashes penances of the old days. They also remind us that everything we do in this life will end up as nothing but ash- and that includes our own lives. Hence the phrase uttered as the ashes are imposed: Remember you are dust, and to dust you shall return. ( "Repent and believe in the Gospel" is the other option, but it sure lacks the punch of the former)

It is only through the Cross of Jesus Christ that anything we say or do in this life as any value. Those ashes are a stark and humbling reminder.


Where do the ashes come from?

Traditionally, the ashes are from the burning of  old Palm Sunday palms. Nowadays, most churches order their ashes from a church supply company. For sign value, some churches will burn the palms for their Ash Wednesday use....  hopefully after they cool- and it takes some time for them to cool, as many have learned the hard way!

Can only Catholics receive ashes?

Ashes are a sacramental, and are not limited to reception by Catholics. An increasing number of non-Catholic churches are having Ash Wednesday services and non-Catholics may receive ashes at an Catholic church. Non-Catholics may not receive the Eucharist or other sacraments at a Catholic church.

How long must I leave the ashes on my forehead?

There is no rule about leaving them. If your job requires it, you may wash them off after the Mass/ service. However, the ashes are a powerful sign! In 2001, I had some business to attend to on Ash Wednesday, immediately after morning Mass. On woman I met with pointed out to me that I had "some dirt" on my forehead. She was Presbyterian and her church was having its first-ever ash service that evening. We had a wonderful discussion about ashes, Lent and Lenten practices in our faiths!

Some siblings have contests to see who can keep the ashes visible the longest....until Mom makes them wash their faces!

Who must abstain from meat?

Catholics age 14 and older should abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday and the Fridays of Lent. Younger than 14? Teach them young! The difference is that younger those younger than 14 are not bound by the rule because they may not fully understand it.

As a side note, the point of abstaining from meat is to make a sacrifice. Bypassing steak and having lobster and shrimp instead is not exactly a sacrifice. These meatless meals should be simple and sacrificial. Traditional Lenten meals in the Alderman home are : Potato Pancakes, Potato Soup, Homemade Pierogies, Macaroni and Cheese, Grilled Cheese and Tomato Soup, Fish and Tater Tots, Tuna Casserole, Spaghetti and  Meatless Sauce

How does fasting work?

Catholics who are age 18 and have not yet reached their 65th birthday are obligated to fast. Fasting means they may eat one complete meal, and the balance of the food eaten during the day should not be greater than  a one-meal amount. Days of fast are Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.



Monday, February 11, 2013

Lenten Bucket List - a Challenge for Lent 2013





So, In just TWO more days, Ash Wednesday will be here and another season of Lent upon us.

When I taught Religious Education, I encouraged the students NOT to “give up” something for Lent. 

Yep. You heard me. Had more than one mother call me irritated because she used this as a way to get her kids to do what “she” wanted them to do. When I asked her what practical spiritual growth would come from giving up TV or sweets or whatever she had in mind for her child …I was greeted with silence.

Naturally, the kids didn’t tell their folks the rest of the story. You see young people- and most adults for that matter- don’t understand sacrifice as a spiritual benefit.

They give up sweets to lose weight for spring.
They give up TV.. or Facebook.. or video games… But what do they do with that time?
They give up cigarettes for health ( or to save money).
Some people use Lent as version 2.0 for their New Year’s resolutions.
One year I gave up caffeine. About a week into Lent, my family asked me to consider something else.

His 7th grade year, our youngest son (child #6) gave up NOT doing his homework. He was so surprised at how his grades improved, that he continued “not” not doing his homework to this day- as a high school junior. Mom won’t argue against that Lenten sacrifice!

Point is, Lent is supposed to be a time for us to grow closer to God. When we fast, give alms and pray, we should do it with our mind on God. So, I would ask the religious ed children to consider something they could do – with their mind on God- that would help them be better people on Easter Sunday than they were on Ash Wednesday.

I gave them each an index card on which I had traced a cross with ashes from my family’s old palm branches. (and there was their lesson on WHERE we get the ashes and why) They were to keep the card somewhere where they would see it each morning first thing- as a reminder of their Lenten commitment, and see it each evening- to evaluate their progress during the day and pray for strength to continue/ recommit the next day.

For those who can sacrifice with the proper perspective and use it as an opportunity for spiritual growth- that is great. Others do better with a positive spiritual exercise.

With that in mind, here is a list of 40 ideas for Lent. Some are “give up,” some are “do this,” and you can certainly do many of them over the course of Lent, but each offers you an opportunity to do something positive to impact your spiritual life and to help you be a better person on Easter Sunday than you were on Ash Wednesday- which is the entire point of the Lenten experience!

Lenten Bucket List
1.       Pray for Benedict XVI and his successor. And your local priests and bishop. They really need the support!
2.       Set your alarm 10 minutes early. Read the Bible. Start with the Gospels.
3.       Do one crunch per word of the Hail Mary. Really think about the words. (borrowed from Lifeteen.com)
4.       As a family, pray a decade of the rosary each evening. Start with the Joyful mysteries and work your way through.
5.       Smoke? Use Lent as an opportunity to quit. If you smoke a pack a day, smoke one less cigarette every other day. Make a schedule and count them out. In the 7 minutes you would spend on that cigarette, consider the blessings in your life.
6.       Learn the Latin for the Hail Mary ( Ava Maria). Start using it to pray the rosary!
7.       Learn the Latin for the Our Father ( Pater Noster)
8.       Have a smart phone? Try a free Liturgy of the Hours app- all the grace, none of the ribbons!  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.aycka.apps.MassReadings&hl=en
9.       Have a fancy coffee habit? Switch to a more basic brew and set aside the money you would have spent.  Give half to your parish and the other half to a great local charity… like HEARTBEAT…. Or THE HUMANE SOCIETY… Or SAMARITAN HOUSE… or any group you believe will use the money well. ( you could also calculate that amount ahead of time- and make the donation, so the money is already “gone”- giving you additional incentive to keep the commitment) As you drink you plain-er coffee, consider how blessed you are to have the option!
10.   Go through your closet and get rid of anything you have not worn in a year. Haul it over to the St Vincent DePaul Society on South Main Street. Be grateful for the blessing of decent clothes- and get a tax write off!
11.   Go through your linens. If they aren’t good enough for the SVdP, take them to the Humane Society, Angels for Animals or the Dog Warden. …and be grateful for the blessings of your animal companions!
12.   Attend a Mission or Lenten offering at a local Catholic parish. Go with a heart open to the message God has for you!
13.   ATTEND THE LIMA LIFE TEEN VARIETY SHOW ON SATURDAY MARCH 23, 2013. Seeing these amazing teens unafraid to share their faith will refresh your own faith. Oh- and you get dinner, too! Tickets available by calling 419-228-7635.
14.   No smart phone? Commit to praying at least ONE of the hours of the Divine Office each day. You can find the entire Divine Office (Liturgy of the Hours) online free at http://divineoffice.org/   - this has all the prayer hours. Bookmark it! It is an amazing feeling to know our prayers joint together in a chorus before the Lord!
15.   Read about the Saint of the Day. Another site to bookmark ( they also have an app)  https://www.americancatholic.org/Features/SaintofDay/
16.   Visit someone you know who is in a nursing home. Don’t know anyone? Ask around…
17.   Know someone who is working hard to get through school? Remember those days? Give up something you needlessly spend $1 a day on- buy that student gas card.
18.   Visit a cemetery… go to the pauper section or babyland. ( ask at the office) Spend some time in prayer.
19.   Pick up a good spiritual read- you can find ideas at Ignatius.com …and you may get a bargain on Amazon.com
20.   Learn to make mission rosaries. The cord ones are simple and inexpensive. If you are interested, contact me and I’ll hook you up! Make a bunch and give them away… to foreign missions- or local ones. I drop off blessed batches at emergency rooms. If you make them all plastic, patients can use them in an MRI.  All black/plastic rosaries can go to the military- all knotted ones are best. (no noise).
21.   Commit – with someone you love- to a regular discussion of some Church teaching. Learn it well enough to teach someone else.
22.   Read 15 paragraphs of the Catechism of the Catholic Church each day. You won’t get through the whole thing, but it’s a start! It is not a difficult read, and you will learn a LOT about our Catholic faith!
23.   Get to a least one Friday Stations of the Cross at your parish…or get to Mass early and pray the devotion yourself. Try to find a Living Stations on Good Friday. Usually performed by youth, they are a beautiful variation on the traditional Stations.
24.   Put a paper and  pencil on your nightstand. Each day, write one blessing from that day. Keep the paper when Lent is over.
25.   Go to Confession…eEspecially if you haven’t gone in a while. If you can’t recall ‘how,’ tell the priest, he’ll be happy to help you through!! I promise!
26.   Instead of rushing out (or chitty-chatting) after Mass, spend a few minutes in prayer.
27.   Make a commitment to spend time in adoration. The chapel at St Rita’s is always open. Each parish has an adoration schedule- call and ask.
28.   Write a REAL letter to a friend. By hand. Mail it. In an envelope. With a stamp. Tell him/ her how much the relationship means to you. I promise- it will create a smile!
29.   Now write another.
30.   And one to your spouse.
31.   And your kids.
32.   If you feel the need to “give up” something like sweets, the key is to make a spiritual substitution. So, if you reach for a sweet, stop yourself and offer a prayer instead.
33.   If you decide to turn off the TV, you might substitute some family prayer, or even a game…or both!
34.   Several years ago- I still can’t believe they did this- my family got up 30 minutes early every Monday through Friday during Lent for Morning Prayer together. Some of them even continued after Lent!
35.   Try a prayer devotion that is new to you, like the Divine Mercy Chaplet or a novena.
36.   Sit in silence for 10 minutes. Let God speak to you.
37.   Give up Facebook. (but don’t forget to sign up for Blog updates!)
38.   Make a list of things you feel keep you from the spiritual life you wish you could have. Look at the list again, and rewrite it- telling yourself how the items on that list help you grow in your spiritual life.
39.   Don’t be fancy with your meatless meals! Does having shrimp really count as giving up meat on a Friday? Come on!  Go simple… Grilled cheese. Potato soup. Salad. Take the money you save on those meals and donate it to the soup kitchen.
40.   For the ladies… go simple on your hair and makeup. Wash, dry and brush- no curling/ straightening. Minimal makeup- only lipstick and mascara.  Spend the time you save in prayer. Let your natural beauty shine!

Non Habemus Papam... (well in a couple weeks, anyway)



Can you stand one more person offering a reflection on the resignation of BXVI?

As I was tossing around topics for a pre-Ash Wednesday post, I had a few good ideas.

Then Pope Benedict XVI dropped his bombshell. So far, this is my favorite Facebook comment:
“The winner of the best ‘What-I’m-giving-up-for-Lent’ EVER is…Pope Benedict!”

Well, I thought it was cute.

First, I laud Pope Benedict for his faithful service to the Lord through the Church and to God’s people. John Paul II was a tough act to follow- a Holy Father well- loved, eloquent, holy and kind… and the only Pope many Catholics (including myself) could really remember. 

Benedict XVI was elected on a Tuesday. I clearly recall this, because on Tuesdays we have Mass at 12:10 at St. John’s. The usual group began to straggle into the sacristy a little before noon. Then someone came in and said, “They announced white smoke- they elected a pope!” Well, we all looked around… and while I would like to say that we went ahead with Mass, praying fervently and offering up intentions for the new Holy Father…yeah. No. We cancelled Mass and high-tailed it home to watch the announcement live. 

The headlines the next day read : Papa Razzi …. The German Shepherd…. X-V-I, He’s our guy. 

So, now we revisit the process we saw in 2005, with a few modifications. No official mourning period being the biggest. Yet I am amazed by the sorrow everyone has been expressing- almost as if our beloved Papa Razzi has died.

There is a hidden blessing in the whole situation. With a handful of exceptions, each new Holy Father has been thrust into the arena without the guidance of the old. No training, no peaceful transition of power as we have in the change of presidents. Nope. He gets elected, they throw a set of vestments on him in the Room of Tears. Then they push him out onto the balcony announcing “Habemus Papam.” 

Yes, it is a sad time.... but what a blessing!!!

While Pope Benedict cannot name his successor, he may make recommendations. Our new Pope will have the Holy Father-emeritus to turn to as he sees fit, rather than being alone to navigate the Barque of Peter. I think that will be a comfort to the next successor of Peter.

Imagine- an advisor without an agenda!

Pray for the cardinal-electors as they prepare for the conclave. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide each of their hearts as they prepare to elect the next Vicar of Christ. Pray for our next Holy Father- whoever he may be- that he faithfully guide the One, Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church and bring the world closer to Jesus Christ. 

Amen.